Delayed Gratification
September 10th, 2006 · Posted in Uncategorized · 5 CommentsThis article in the Sydney Morning Herald talks about a huge number of house repossessions occuring in Sydney as people default on their loans after people took out huge loans to buy big houses.
It seems our society is fixated on getting stuff now, no matter the eventual cost. Delayed gratification is never considered.
It’s something we need to think about, and try and change our ways. Instead of buying everything you want, think about what you need. After you have the necessities, you can worry about the extras. Save up and get it once you can afford it.
This applies to housing too – instead of getting a 5-bedroom house with 3 bathrooms and a harbour view, think about what you need – maybe three bedrooms. And you could share a bathroom with the kids. Maybe even consider (gasp!) renting. At the moment Jen and I are renting, we’d like to buy a house eventually, but at the moment renting suits us fine. We can move at the drop of a hat if necessary, we don’t have a huge debt hanging over our heads and we don’t have to pay rates or maintenance bills.
It’d be nice to have our own place, and maybe we will one day, but we don’t want to be struggling just to make loan repayments each month – we’d rather be able to pay off a mortgage comfortably.
A quick note about credit cards
Don’t think of a credit card as providing you with free money. It’s very much not free. Credit cards are handy – they let you wrangle all your payments into one lump sum payable at the end of the month, and if you don’t have quite enough money for something you need, you can still get it.
But, the best way to use a credit card is to spend only what you have in your account. If you couldn’t afford it with the money in your bank account, don’t buy it. If you pay back the entire amount each month then you don’t have to pay interest (then it effectively becomes free money).
Don’t spend more than you have, or you’ll get yourself into loads of trouble. Don’t take out a loan you can’t pay back. Wait, and only buy things once you can afford them. Modern society has lost this common sense with advertising telling you to spend now and worry about the cost later. It doesn’t work.
RodeoClown: not a financial advisor.
September 11th, 2006 at 2:02 pm
Great wise words Rodeo. We have just purchased a small unit – very exciting and very scary all at the same time. We thought about it and know we can make the repayments even if only SP ends up working but it is certainly something to think about. I was very unwise at one time a with credit card, I now have one payment to make and then that is it. SP has taught me heaps about wisdom with money, the one thing I thought might be a big issue for us has actually been something we work well together on. Thanks for the wise advice
September 11th, 2006 at 3:07 pm
Thanks Rodeoclown, not many people give Christian advice in this area, but it is greatly needed.
Someone recently challenged us to think about buying a house if we were going to stay and minister in Sydney. It was a scary thought. Having never owned anything more than a 2nd hand car, it made me realise that there are big decisions awaiting me in the future!
September 11th, 2006 at 3:10 pm
Yeah I would really recommend that people have a read of either ted trainer’s website http://socialwork.arts.unsw.edu.au/tsw/
or have a read of The Procrastinator’s Guide to Simple Living by Jim McKnight.
Both of their writings changed the way that my husband and I thought about our future- particularly in relation o the ethics of banks and lending. It made me realise so many economies are running on ‘fake’ or borrowed money.
In real terms because evry individual’business/company are paing back loans with interest approx 40% of what you pay for an item/service goes towards paying off someone’s loan…
September 12th, 2006 at 9:59 am
I heard a Christian financial advisor say once that the big problem that young people get themselves into these days is expecting to live at the standard of living that they have been accostomed to (via their parents). Not realizing that their parents spent a lifetime to acheive that standard of living.
Great advice.
September 12th, 2006 at 1:44 pm
Good point Tracy.
Maybe in 20-30 years I will OWN my own house like Mum does, but as you say it has taken her all those years to achieve that!
D!
Dez!: Wants to own at least one house, one day.